In India, domestic violence is
always believed to be inflicted on women. However, during personal interactions
with many males in society and in the organized setups such as industries and
offices, it was observed that men also suffer from domestic violence.
Due to stereotyped gender roles,
it is hardly believed by society that a woman can inflict violence on men. Many
courts also commented on false allegations of domestic violence by women. Men
are still not ready to speak of this violence against them and they are
ignorant about any legal help to avoid this.
Comparison of India and Other Countries
The prevalence of spouse/intimate
partner violence (51.5%) in the latest Indian study was found to be higher
than data collected for domestic violence under partner abuse state of
knowledge project (PASK) from the USA, Canada, and the UK (19.3%).
Domestic violence was recognized
as a criminal offense in India in 1983. The offense is chargeable under section
498A of the Indian Penal Code.
Scarce research data on domestic
violence against men are available in the scientific literature.
However, according to a recent
study, 51.5% males experienced
violence at the hands of their wives/intimate partner at least once in their
lifetime and 10.5% in the last 12 months.
According to the National Family
Health Survey, 2004, this violence is not always inflicted by the female
partner/wife but many a time by a male relative of the wife attacks or
threatens the man. When physical violence and threats against men by wife’s
relatives are taken into account, an estimated 3 crore men are facing domestic
violence in India.
In a study conducted by My Nation along with Save Family Foundation (Delhi) on
domestic violence against men, between April 2005 and March 2006, 1,650 men
were interviewed and their personal cases looked into.
The study concluded that Indian women were the most abusive and
dominating.
From all over India, 98% of the respondents had suffered
domestic violence more than once in their lives. The study covered Indian
husbands from various socioeconomic strata, but the bulk of the respondents,
according to the researchers, came from the upper middle class and the middle
class.
Nadda et al found much
higher physical violence, 35% and 26.9%, respectively, against women this
reflecting that Indian women are much less physically aggressive than Indian
men. Gender symmetry does not exist in India for physical violence.
Domestic violence has been
recognized across the world as a form of violence that affects a person’s life
in every way, physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically, and is a
violation of basic human rights. In a recent study by Malik and Nadda, the
most common spousal violence was found to be emotional followed by physical
violence.
Physical Violence
This can include slapping;
pushing; hitting by wife, her parents, or relatives; or throwing objects like
utensils, cell phones, and crockery at the husband. In physical violence,
slapping was identified as the most common form (98.3%)2, 6 and
the least common was beaten by weapon (3.3%). Only in one-tenth of the cases,
physical assaults were severe.2
Psychological Violence
In emotional violence, reported 85% abuse against the men was
criticism, 29.7% were insulted in front of others, and 3.5% were threatened or
hurt. It can also be in the form of mental abuse such as constant threats
to the husband and his family under false allegations of dowry and domestic
violence.
This can happen if the husband
denies sex. According to a study by Malik and Nadda, only 0.4% men had experienced sexual violence.
Types of Crime
Committed Against Men in India
At home or at the workplace to
avoid punishments or to get some rewards, men too can be involved in sexual
activity by force. In many states of India, a young man with good
qualifications and income is abducted and forced to marry without his consent. False rape and other charges such
as molestation are also common. Since law and society always traditionally
favor females as the weaker sex, many a time, false complaints of sexual
abuse/rape are lodged against men. This is true regarding cases against men
under 498A (domestic violence) and false dowry cases, and the same was
expressed by various courts during their proceedings.
Domestic violence is a huge problem in our time. Unfortunately, some women are afraid to talk about it. Even worse, statistics say that more than 60% of women experience violence in marriage due to low self-esteem. However, the very first thing women should do in this situation is to file for divorce and get as far away from such a person as possible. People don't change, and the husband can apologize at least 1000 times, but he will do it again as soon as he finds a convenient opportunity for this.
ReplyDeleteIn addition to the fact that women do not want to talk about violence, they also lack the confidence and determination to make this difficult concession and file for divorce. Sometimes they are afraid of the court itself, because they do not know how to win a divorce case
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